https://blog.penelopetrunk.com/cdn/home/pt-logo.png00Penelopehttps://blog.penelopetrunk.com/cdn/home/pt-logo.pngPenelope2022-08-29 11:53:132022-08-29 11:53:53Would an ENTJ be romantically compatible with an INFJ?
This question is a good example of practicing pattern recognition using MBTI in the context of finding a partner.
INFJs hate everyone. They are the most dissatisfied in marriages of all types. The INFJ has to decide to be happy with what they get and then they are happy. But everyone is imperfect and no one cares about the INFJ values/standards even if the INFJ thinks they do.
Don’t ever utter a criticism. If you have to criticize your partner now, you can’t be with the person. Because you will be way more critical in 5 years.
When you are with an ENTJ, focus on what they DO give to the INFJ – which is space for self-discovery. ENTJs are fulfilled by leading groups and grabbing power so they aren’t focused on defining values like you are. Accept what they give to a romantic relationship is different from what an INFJ does and reframe when you get disappointed. Remember that to make relationships work, it isn’t about whose value is more right and changing the other person, it’s about understanding and letting each other be who they are.
Penelope
Marina says:
“INFJs hate everybody”.
I laughed so much reading this. I’m an INFJ and I agree. Eternal hatred for Humanity and dissatisfaction with life, until I decide that I have enough, and then I remember to be happy.
This question is a good example of practicing pattern recognition using MBTI in the context of finding a partner.
INFJs hate everyone. They are the most dissatisfied in marriages of all types. The INFJ has to decide to be happy with what they get and then they are happy. But everyone is imperfect and no one cares about the INFJ values/standards even if the INFJ thinks they do.
Don’t ever utter a criticism. If you have to criticize your partner now, you can’t be with the person. Because you will be way more critical in 5 years.
When you are with an ENTJ, focus on what they DO give to the INFJ – which is space for self-discovery. ENTJs are fulfilled by leading groups and grabbing power so they aren’t focused on defining values like you are. Accept what they give to a romantic relationship is different from what an INFJ does and reframe when you get disappointed. Remember that to make relationships work, it isn’t about whose value is more right and changing the other person, it’s about understanding and letting each other be who they are.
Penelope
“INFJs hate everybody”.
I laughed so much reading this. I’m an INFJ and I agree. Eternal hatred for Humanity and dissatisfaction with life, until I decide that I have enough, and then I remember to be happy.