Will an INTP (F) pairing work with an ISTJ (M)?
I had a coaching call with you a few years ago and you told me to find a guy who is older than me and successful enough to allow me to be a stay at home wife. I think I found him but he’s an ISTJ (and I’m INTP), do you think that will work?
That’s a fun question. Yes, I think that’ll work. I’ve worked with a couple who has that pairing. She’s the INTP. I think what makes it work for them is she understands that he has to have everything his way and he has to be right. And he understands that she has to be able to try new stuff all the time and be impractical.
Everyone has to love those things about the other person and understand that you bring what the other person doesn’t have — you each make each other’s life much more balanced.
Penelope