Hi Penelope,
I’ve been reading your blog since I was 16? 18?. It was a big contributing factor in purposefully deciding against big career ambitions. So after my undergrad in [redacted] (stupid major unless you want to purse a PhD) I did my teaching qualifications to teach high school math. Had my daughter 2 weeks before graduation and have been a stay at home mom ever since. Also moved from [expensive city non US] to [expensive city US] bc husband is American.
I would love to homeschool? Who are these women who are working for fun? I definitely prefer to stay home bake bread and not send the toddler to daycare. Hubs come from a double income family. MIL thinks the kind of income required to have a SAHM is 500 000. Hubs works in computer science in big tech but is still fairly junior (we are late twenties).
So anyway I’m going to work next year as a teacher.
We waiting to have kid number 2 bc housing prices are insane.
I underestimated how much of an outlier I would feel socially. I am the youngest mom I meet everywhere, by at least 5 years if not 10. And most families we meet can afford 30k/year daycare for 2 kids and international vacation for toddlers etc. (usually dual income families in tech who are senior or principals.
Am I crazy?