What is fun? Is it important to have fun?
My husband and I are not having fun and I am making myself feel bad for that. We are so hard to entertain. We watch a comedian and laugh for a few minutes and then nothing else is funny after that. Is this something we need to get better at? At least I don’t think we’re having fun. We’re just being reliable and taking care of kids and home and stuff. If we don’t hate our life is that good enough?
Fun and laughing aren’t the same. Sometimes fun is simply the opposite of boring. And that encompasses a lot. I don’t think you need to worry about fun. Instead worry about whether you are engaged. Measure engagement vs disengagement in your life. And if you’re disengaged, that needs attention.